Saturday, October 02, 2010

The Solemnisation Ceremony

A very outdated post.. Finally managed to upload all the photos..
Warning: Photo intensive post ahead. Photos may take some time to load.

*v* 8 September 2010 *v*
This day marks a new beginning.
The day I took on a new status.
The day I became a Mrs.
The day I took on my husband's name.
Woke up bright and early at 5.15am and we headed down to the studio to get my makeup and hair done. My cousin,W and her boyfriend, I, were the designated photograhers for the day.

Tools of the trade
My MUA trying to conceal all my blemishes and pimples
Makeup done .. Having a breakfast break before getting my hair styled
All done.. J took this picture. I love how he managed to capture the chandelier in this pic.

My MUA finished by 9am and we made our way down to Parkway Parade to collect the cake and reached the hotel by 9.45am. The weather was starting to turn bad and it was drizzling by the time we reached the hotel. Thank god we did not book the poolside for our ceremony if not everyone would have been drenched. The vendor was still setting up the the chairs and flowers when we reached so we checked into our room first and changed into our gown and suits. Y and C reached then and they were such great helps in helping me into my dress and carrying things up and down to the room.

My pretty bouquet of red roses with white pearls with my rings
J getting ready
Almost done
My groom looking smart and handsome
Me with Y. Thanks for all the help =)
Back in the boardroom, my mum helping to set up the reception area.
Finally, a pic of the bride and groom
My chinese wedding shotglass favors. I chose this over the western wedding shotglass because it fits my theme of red, white and black.
The buffet area. There was aot of food left over. Love the mushroom soup best.
Solemnisation table. With the chairs in white seat covers and red sash.
Solemnisation table centerpiece following the theme with red and white flowers.
A photo with my paternal side of the family before the ceremony
WIth J's family before the ceremony
My ring holder which I DIY-ed. I got alot of compliments for it.
FL, my pretty emcee for the day
The JP was slightly late. But we managed to start in time. Dr Phua was one humorous guy who managed to get my guests laughing through most of the ceremony with his mix of english, chinese and hokkien.
No view of the sea due to the bad weather.
J putting the ring on my finger ..
Me putting the ring on his finger
Must take picture of us too..
My mum looks happy and my bro looks bored..
My dad is happy that his daughter is finally married.
We are married!!
Photo with our parents and the JP
Dr Phua telling us about the 3 As.
One last pic with Dr Phua before he heads back.
Presenting.. *Drum rolls*
Mr and Mrs Tan
A pic with Y. My sister, cousin, my playmate, my buddy, my shopping kaki, my confidante through the years
W, writing a message on the polaroids
With my second aunt
The ladies in my family
Surprise birthday cake for my dad and grandma
A new addition into the family
With Grandma
Mother and son cutting the cake.
J with his father in law
With my gossip kakis. Thanks gals for taking time off to attend my ROM.
My bro
With my siblings
With J's nephews
Cutting the cake for my guests
See how happy J is taking photos with so many pretty girls.

It was a memorable event. And I am glad that I insisted on having the solemnisation on a separate day from the AD.

~ Signing off as Mrs Tan ~
Thursday, September 30, 2010

Miss, Ms or Mrs?

This topic came up during one of my lunch time conversations with my colleagues soon after my marriage.

The difference between a Miss and a Mrs is very clear but Ms. to me is still a gray area so I decided to google this and this is the answer I got.


Miss is the formal 'title' for a female child until the age of 12 - OR for a woman who has never married.



Ms. is the 'title' for a majority of divorced woman but in the U.S, Ms, is the generic term to use when referring to a woman that you know nothing about, particularly in the business world.



Mrs. is the formal 'title' for a married woman.
~~ Signing of as Mrs Tan ~~
Tuesday, September 21, 2010

A trip on the LRT





Suaku me taking the Punggol LRT for the first time although I have been staying in this area for the past 6 years.



Sent from my iPhone
Wednesday, August 25, 2010

DIY Ring "Pillow"

A bit overdued but here are the pics for my ring 'pillow' which matches my red and white theme. I got the bears FOC from SK Jewellary when we got our wedding bands. Finally got the bears to stay put by using epoxy glue. The bears dropped off once the hot glue cooled.

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~~ Looking forward to being Mrs Tan ~~
Tuesday, August 24, 2010

J's Birthday Surprise - Part 3

Here's the final part to J's birthday celebration 2 weekends back.

We strolled down the Singapore River after our swim and settled for dinner at Cafe Iguana where I had 2 glasses of frozen margaritas. I was feeling a little light headed after that so we made a stop at Meidi-ya to pick up some instant noodles for supper before strolling back to our hotel where J received the 3rd surprise of the day. A SE Aino which he had his eyes on for a long time. We spent the night watching Discovery channel and enjoying the cakes from Flor Patisserie which were wonderful. Not very sweet and heavy.

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~~ Looking forward to being Mrs Tan ~~